Barbara Asselin

Barbara "Bugs" Asselin, aged 71, passed away peacefully on March 30, 2024. Born on June 1, 1952, Bugs was a beacon of love and joy to all who knew her. Her early years laid the foundation for a life filled with laughter, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to family. Preceded in death by her beloved parents, Madonna and Harvey, and five amazing siblings, Audrey, Veronica, Pete, Micky, and Ronnie, Bugs's legacy is carried forward by her four wonderful siblings, Annette, Mark, Rick, and Bonnie. Her spirit is also fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews who adored her deeply, and her best friend in the world, Sue Grainger. Professionally, Bugs dedicated over 35 years to Appleton Electric in South Milwaukee, where her commitment and hard work left an indelible mark. Her career was more than just a job; it was an extension of her community and a source of pride. The relationships she cultivated during her time at Appleton Electric were deeply valued and speak to her loyalty and passion for collaboration and friendship. Family was the cornerstone of Bugs's world. Bugs was the heart of her family. Her devotion to her loved ones was evident in the joy of their gatherings, especially during the simple pleasures of life she so cherished. After-dinner car rides were a trademark of Bugs's adventure—spontaneous, full of laughter, and often leading to nowhere but moments of shared happiness. These rides, for no particular reason other than to enjoy each other's company, became treasured memories for her family and loved ones. Saturday mornings were another special time, reserved for breakfast with loved ones. These occasions, filled with stories, good food, and the warmth of family, underscored Bugs's belief in the importance of togetherness and creating moments that mattered. Bugs's home was a reflection of her spirit, especially her yard, which she transformed into a spectacle of decorations.  Her dedication to making sure it had THE MOST decorations was unmatched, bringing joy not only to her but to all who passed by. This labor of love was Bugs's way of sharing beauty and celebration with her community, making her home a landmark of joy and creativity. Bugs had an extraordinary ability to listen, support, and offer wisdom, making everyone around her feel understood and valued. As we say goodbye to Bugs, we are reminded of the incredible impact she had on our lives. Her legacy of love, compassion, and family will live on through the memories we cherish and the lives she touched. A celebration of Bugs's life will be held at American Legion Post 434, located at 9327 S. Shepard Avenue in Oak Creek, WI 53154, on May 12, 2024, at 1:00pm. We invite all who knew and loved her to join us in honoring her remarkable life and the love she shared with so many. In keeping with Bugs's loving spirit, we encourage friends and family to share their stories and memories. Through these shared moments, we can continue to keep her spirit alive and celebrate the joy she brought into our lives. Bugs, your love and light will forever guide us.